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Originally Posted by ~Christina
You have time invested in this but you really need to look at the whole picture..
Are you willing to give up the idea of having a child? will you regret it later?
People get hurt and cheated on, his refusal to love again seems extreme to be honest.
You and him have been together for 4 years... what binds you together? yes you love him.. but why does he stay? that is something that you really need answers to, i think at least.
Good luck in whatever you decide.
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First off thank you,
I keep thinking of not having a kid but when I see someone pregnant or someone who has a kid I feel slightly jealous cause I do want that experience. And I feel like I would regret it but am not sure. Something I have to really dig down deep for.
What binds us? I don't know there is a lot I feel. The way he moves, the way he talks, his smile, his cheesy grin, the way he is with his kids. The way we are together when things are good. We are so solid together when things are well. We enjoy practically the same things, and are both compassionate about helping others, we are both big on family. The way he smells too. Its just a whole boast of things. He loves the way I am, I can be feminine but remain mainly tomboy. He loves what I do for the kids and how I do what I can to make them and him happy.