I appeciate all of your input. I'm sure it must be hard to talk about, even on a forum.

As I only see her occassionally, its easier to pick up on weight loss than it is for someone seeing her every day. She has always been very thing, but also extremely active. I never worried about it before, but when I saw her after a couple of months, it worried me. There is a lot of things going on in her life right now. She tends to be a very private person, and I would not ask her about her weight. If anything, I think it would cause her to pull away. I have asked her if she is ok and she says she is.

There are times when she is very open, but usually its just light conversation. Both of us are introverts, so the heavier conversations aren't common. I'm just concerned about her. I'm hoping that I'm wrong.

It seems to me that eating disorders are horrible things to live with. Why would someone want to encourage others to do the same thing?

Sam2