I feel the same way. I've been divorced for 12 years and I've had a few long term relationships with guys who didn't want to commit. I'm 47 now and I feel so desperate to find somebody. It's making me feel so depressed and I hate feeling like this. I have a great job, a wonderful and loving 15 year old son and I exercise and keep myself fit. I don't really have any good girlfriends and I'd like to go out and meet some people but because I'm so depressed about not having a guy, I turn off alot of women because I'm a downer.

How can I just quit feeling so sorry for myself, get some confidence and be happy? I'd give anything to take a magic pill and just feel good about myself.