Hey Angie, I find sometimes that it is difficult to help people who don't understand that you are trying to help them, they see it as something bad. But I have also find that sometimes they realize later on how valuable you really were and that you indeed were only trying to help... I hope that one she will see you in that light. But as Tomi said, it is not your responsiblity... Keep your distance and your boundaries to protect you from anymore emotional damage...

Take care