I ask because because today I really needed t to help me start but she didn't. I said I needed help because I didn't know how to start. She said to take my time and arrive. I said ok but you know t I will sit here and say nothing and she said that is ok too. Sometimes I get frustrated because I need her help. I mentioned this love hate thing I have with her after a while, which seemed like ages and she said I needed to accept her as a whole person which meant all of her, good and bad.
I couldn't bring up anything else for rest of time and she just sat with me.
Is your t good at helping you start?