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Originally Posted by mister-a
Making new friends has always been difficult, and those that I have had came by just by luck, I have never been able to let go of anybody though inside ~ everyone is still there, just sort of missing.
I couldn't ever replace him, I would never want to, and I know I will never be able to let go, not even through decades.
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If making friends is difficult for you, you are sad for yourself. You feel lonely already.
But we live in years 2000 thank God: there is skype and those blessed blessed inventions that make the world come closer.
It is correct, you could never replace him: you don't replace friends, you just make new friends, that are different persons and are not supposed to fill a void, but just to be accepted as themselves.
You know, you sound quite tragic and I'm sorry about that, but if you never make friends, how come you made this one? And as you have this one, you will make more.
Why is the terrible fate pending upon you? which bad fairy said these words onto your cradle?
I guess no one. You are just saying this to yourself and so you make it come true. Just by believing it.
How about talking this out this a counselor? About this idea that you don't make friends, you never have friends still you have very good ones.
