I think it is ignorance and neglect on the part of the therapists at the center that your thoughts and feelings weren't considered in this decision. I think it sucks that they decided for you, especially if your parents were in on the decision -- they are why you are there in the first place!!! It sucks that you didn't have time to process the termination, you have a right to be angry and I know you are in a lot of pain. Sending you tons of hugs!