Some of my ideas, opinions, and morals are mine and I won't budge on them, but I am BPD and like a lot of BPDs, I lack a definitive identity. When in a group or with people for any length of time, my identity begins to mold in to theirs. I start talking like them and acting like them, doing things that I wouldn't have ever done on my own. I would have denied doing this a few years ago, but I've observed myself and it does happen with both individuals and groups. I don't know if it's bad or not...it's just the way I am.