Miswimmy - PM'd you, because it is hard for me to accept what is put on this forum as to what the perfect therapy boundaries are. When these same boundaries don't allow people to progress, and move forward. I guess people feel if you follow one of these prescriptions you will come along swimmingly. Therapist, don't really make much progress with their young clients when the parents says, here's my kid, fix her and I will be back in a 50 minute hour. It's the family that needs to be fixed in order for the family to truly heal. Your therapist cant have contact with you in anyway shape or form. its good to know you can go anywhere you want to get birth control without your parents consent! And not emotional health care - go figure I can't wait till your eighteen. Sorry for my rant.