Rainbow ~ Yes! It is also partly what you said about feeling like someone else appreciates my T and that he is "our" T

I have a confession to make though: I also think I was happy that he was seeing someone after me because I feel guilty meeting with him so late into the evening....yeah, I know it's his job and his choice and all, but it makes me feel like he'd rather be somewhere else. So selfishly, it's like he can be mad at that client and not me
Who knew that seeing a client in the lobby could cause so many different and mixed reactions/feelings!