My T and I have been working together since January. I like her and feel that we are a fit. However....she has some big time boundaries. It is hard to explain but it feels like she has this invisible wall around her... when I brought up the transference I went as far to tell her "you are not my mother nor are you my lover" she quietly acknowledged what I said...quietly. Really???! I mean...I would think that would open up some dialogue... but nope....she didn't touch it. I can't help to think that it is because of the boundary wall that she has going on...can anyone shed some light?