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Old May 24, 2013, 05:09 AM
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I think I know what you mean. Twenty minutes isn't very long tho, honey. Don't be mad at them for the twenty minutes, but for the 2 hours? Yeah, I'd be pissed. For all they know you could have PASSED OUT in the bathroom from being sick. You could have fainted in there and hit your head on the tub or sink for all they know. They should have looked to see if you were okay long before 2 hours passed! If one of MY friends had been gone for 20-30 minutes, *I* sure would have checked up on them, but that's just me.

As far as making an issue out of it? No -- I don't think I would, hon. Friends are very hard to come by, and you've known them for almost 10 years. I know this hurts you, but I really don't think I'd confront them about it. Where are you going to find friends like them now? You're NOT.

Let this go sweetie. You were probably brought up differently than they were. Perhaps you were brought up to be more compassionate to others, and show more caring. But don't ruin a GOOD friendship over this, okay? I KNOW you'll regret it if you do. Forgive them, and let it go.

I wish you the very best, my friend. God bless and please take care. Hugs, Lee
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