I have had a few pretty long term boyfriends, and each time we started out using condoms. I have been on the pill for almost 5 years now. I trust that it works very well with my body (from this long term experience). So before really knowing the other's sexual history we definitely used condoms, then if we both got tested and felt comfortable we would just use the pill.

I enjoyed it more that way, as did he. I had zero pregnancy scares and had a healthy relationship with the more recent ex for two years. Now that I am single, though, I definitely do not have sex without condoms.