I am 45 years old and just learning that my father 83 years old has molested children. Not really sure of all the details and who all of them were or how many or how many times. It appears his sister, sister-in-law, nieces, possibly son, brother and peeped for several years at many others. He is now elderly and in need of help - he is living with me and I am taking care of him and have been for almost a year but just learning this in the past month, not sure how I feel about my responsibility to take care of him. My emotions are numb, my head is spinning. I have two sons I am concerned for what may have happened, with either or both of them, scared to ask, scared not to. I can't remember much from my early childhood, now I'm not sure that I want to - too scared, but feel that I probably need to . I don't know what I'm looking for just trying to sort this out in my mind and see if any one else has been through such a screwed up mess and if they may have some advise. Thanks