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Originally Posted by adam_k
She told me if I left her, she wouldn't have a reason to live and wouldn't know how to make it alone.
I think there is two ways to interept that. One she is lying and using a sensitive subject to manipulate me, or she would be so distraught about being alone she couldn't cope. I think it is more the second. I don't think she could make it alone.
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Adam, I
totally agree with you.
Suicidal threats are manipulative per se, and to pull that one on a person who has suffered from a
lot of suicidality himself would have been
horrendously manipulative, beyond belief! I do not think that Sarah meant THAT.
She really, truly, objectively cannot make it alone. That is the truth. That is the reality. So... it is your choice as to what to do about it, but that is what it is - she would not be able to support herself.