Yes ! I am stupid. Why ? Well apparently I am unable to keep boundaries up so that I don't allow people to overwhelm me or even use me ( or at least that how it feels)

I am always wanting to help people, that is just part of who I am, But, so often it is just a one sided relationship .. WTF? do I have a stamp on my forehead that says " dump everything on me and walk away?" Really no need to even ask how I am or if I am ok....

I'm sorry for ranting, I had to get this out of my head or I was going blow up and do god knows what.

I have only myself to blame