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Originally Posted by shery53
maybe she is playing games but as far as talking to her current love for 3-4 hrs. I can remember talking to my current husband for 3-4 hr when we were first in love. and i probanbly did ignore some friends but 16 years later we are happily marrried.
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Honestly, I wouldn't put that past her. She once tried to get me to make an ex boyfriend jealous by saying something about how a lot of hot guys were checking her out at the mall on face book. I refused to do it telling her that it was stupid and immature to do so and that if she was having issues with him, that she should talk to him directly. She seemed to respect my decision back then.
Anyways, she likes using the word "chase" even in the context of friendship. Her last advice to me was to not "chase" this other friend too much. She reminded me that it's the same way with guys as it is with friends. I disagree. Anyways, I still haven't heard back from her since 4/29 or 4/30. Ugh! One good friend of mine told me to email or call her one more time and to keep things short and sweet. She told me to just say hey, I miss you and we should get together sometime. I think that she wants me to "chase" her and that she enjoys punishing me for having said a few things that she didn't like, ugh!
As for my other friend, she told me to not mention anything that would stress her out as that might make her want to avoid me more. I think that she's right and I guess that I'll just have to accept the fact that my so called bff is a little immature and not as direct as I am it seems like. I'm sure that when the "honeymoon" phase is over with, which it will be in a year judging by past relationships, then things will be back to normal with her *****ing to me about her latest guy drama all over again!
Anyways, thanks for your reply and enjoy the rest of your Memorial Day weekend.
Angie