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Originally Posted by Maranara
Some of my ideas, opinions, and morals are mine and I won't budge on them, but I am BPD and like a lot of BPDs, I lack a definitive identity. When in a group or with people for any length of time, my identity begins to mold in to theirs. I start talking like them and acting like them, doing things that I wouldn't have ever done on my own. I would have denied doing this a few years ago, but I've observed myself and it does happen with both individuals and groups. I don't know if it's bad or not...it's just the way I am.
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I do the same thing, my mother would call me out on it like it was a bad thing, and in school I got called out on it too. I still do it, just not as much, I try to hide it. I guess that is why I am going through such a hard time now with memories from my past resurfacing and now with trying to be my own person, and a likeable person at the same time. I didn't know other people did it to, or that it is connected to BPD....thanks
