Tam, I am so glad you told your story. Your current T is correct. "IT WAS NOT YOUR FAULT OR ANY OF YOUR DOING, AND YOU CERTAINLY DIDN'T DESERVE THIS". You are courageous for seeking help, for letting it be a male who you decided to share this information with, and for speaking out. I understand where you are at right now. I have no great words of wisdom, only that you are brave for speaking about this to your T and to us here at PC. It is a great pleasure to have you in my life, and to have gotten to know you. Continue to be strong. Now you can start working on putting this nightmare behind you. Thank you for sharing.
Hugs,
Big Mama