Thanks big Mama.....I have been abused from age 12 until recently (even though I have not quite accepted this last 15 years off and on with my H) I have mixed feelings and questions about that one. anyways one thing that keeps me from confronting or saying anything especially to my M is that when she found out about my SD she accused me and said it was my fault that she got divorced and I will be dammed if she or anyone blames me for one of the others. as long as I keep it to myself (my chest feels like it is going to bust through my skin just writing this) I cannot hurt anyone else!! I have a very hard time blaming myself to begin with for the abuse that I do not need anyone to help with that.
Sorry I need to stop right there!!!!