We've also always waited to give special things on special days, and as much as he may want one, it's not a gigantic hardship since he's never had one. His obsession is gigantic. He was defragging and crashing computers when he was 3 years old. He's always been more concerned with the innards, settings and such than the actual programs or games. It's been a challenge......and you're right. The main concern now is the discipline.