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I think it is up to the individual. Like yourself for instance. You are dieing to be married. What are you reasons to wanting to be married? Will you if you have someone or meet someone marry them just to be married? Do you or will you look for the right person?
For myself I do not see any advantages to being married except maybe sharing someone's healthcare. I also like being able to do what I like to when I want to. No answering to anyone buy myself and no worrying about someone else either. I have lost a few friends because they got married. Either they can not get permission to get out (really she's your wife not your mother) or we just lost contact. One friend's wife didn't like him hanging out with us because the few of us left as friends were single. All these things showed me was that these people were not really friends and being married is not worth losing who I am.
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