Welcome to PC bbren..here you won't have to sort through it alone....

I can imagine how difficult this has been for you.. not having any clear memories of your own childhood, you wouldn't know that he was capable of such a thing.

Have you talked to him about it? I think its important to talk with your sons because if he molested them then they need to be in therapy as soon as possible so they can begin the healing process.

I didn't have any clear memories of the abuse I suffered until my father passed away.... and then I was flooded with memories, a started therapy a year ago and am working on healing..

Im sorry you are hurting...talking helps... peace, Faith