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Originally Posted by optimize990h
OK I'll rephrase it.
It is difficult when you valued relationship than the other person who did not put the same energy into it.
Avoid unnecessary social media viewing or other. If person does not respond, diminish email contact.
You have posted to the forums that match the topic. As long as you respond to the post in this thread and the other thread, you may get more feedback from other members.
I understand your loss, I have had to go through it many times in the past. Hope u r ok.
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Hi, I see what you mean now. It seems like she did value our friendship as much as I did at first, but for some reason, that balance changed with time. I didn't realize it at first, but looking back, the signs were there such as not having her respond to my calls anymore and letting it go to v.m 99% of the time.
I have NOT contacted her on FB at all and don't plan on it. That's good to know that I posted to the right forum-
I'm glad to hear that I'm not the only one who's going through this. Sorry to hear that you've been through this a lot in the past-:
It seems to me that the concept of friendship is lost on many people these days and that true friends are getting harder and harder to come by these days. It seems like most people are becoming a lot more selfish and self absorbed. Ugh! No wonder I don't put as much effort in trying to make new friends anymore!
Angie