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Originally Posted by LearningMe01
It's OK that you chickened out, don't beat yourself up over it 
What you're trying to discuss with her is not an easy thing to bring up. Just try not to let it go for too long, because it could become very counterproductive to your therapy.
As for the way she acts. I feel like you're seeing my therapist LOL She doesn't take notes, or assign homework and also gives me "little suggestions." Mine is a lesbian though.
Hang in there , and good luck (maybe next week?)  |
Thanks for the words. I wonder if their could be some kind of transference going on. Yes she is attractive. Something I'm noticing is all. I'm glad I have a straight female as my T and then again NOT! At least with a lesbian I wouldn't feel like this is all brand new world for her. Since she has asked the "Have you slept with men question", I find myself wanting to spout back " HAVE YOU EVER SLEPT WITH a WOMAN"....ughhh....its just a reaction. The last thing a lesbian wants to here coming from a straight girl she barely knows....Is, have you ever slept with a man.....usually that gets an extremely fowl look from me. LOL. I don't know, I like her, I loath her. I definately need to know to see if she is cool with gays? Then I'll want to know if supports equal rights and gay marriage. Ahhh....and it goes on and on. I want to make sure we are comfortable with each other. I will try asking her all this next week. Try being the key word there. Therapy IS SOOOOO HARD~!