well thank you both for your responses... and myself, i didn't take the capitals as yelling... ty! i've lost time all my life also, but it was the situation i was in that made is frightening... that was likely the trigger... and thank you for the link... i'll be sure to check it out!! btw, i was in a strange city, with someone i don't really know, in a bar which i don't usually do.... not a good time to lose time!!
tallison