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Old Nov 10, 2006, 02:35 PM
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RULE NO. 1 - Never, ever go into details about your sexual history (unless you must advise of a recurrent STD you may have). They may want to know, they may think they can handle it, but it is none of their business and will only create exactly what has been created now between you two. I sincerely hope he will be able to deal with it maturely.

In my experience, I have yet to see a young man be able to do that. Older men, yes, because they are aware that with age comes the possibility of many more partners, so it is not such a big deal. Young men on the other hand, do not usually handle this well. Neither do young women, come to think of it. Most are not able to master the art of controlling their own jealousies and insecurities that well, at this stage of life.

Wishing you the best!

Altered State
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