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Old May 26, 2013, 11:14 AM
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Originally Posted by comicgeek007 View Post
I have a temp T appointment late this week. So far I feel no more or less stable than when I was taking my meds. I don't have that foggy feeling anymore, like something was blocking my ideas. Maybe I'll actually do well this coming semester since I did really bad in a lot of my classes while medicated- a lot of it directly because of medications (being too dizzy to get out of bed, unable to concentrate on my work, etc) but I feel like deep down I could have done better even though at the same time I feel like I tried my hardest. My dad supports me being off my meds, but that's just in line with the idea he doesn't think anything's wrong with me besides occasionally being a little depressed (three suicide attempts he knows about) but despite liking with my mother who's horribly bipolar (and just a horrible abusive person overall) for many years, he doesn't see my moods as a particular problem and thinks I was exaggerating about being manic (only had one true mania and he wasn't around to see it) even though my T was the one who suggested I was, not me!

I'm the kid who never complained about illnesses unless they got so bad it was dangerous ( bad sinus infection, whatever the hell went wrong with my kidneys, etc) partially because I have a fairly high pain tolerance, especially when depressed, but a lot because it seems whenever I do complain about an illness, it's'not as bad as I think it is' and I should just stop complaining about it.because it'ssuposedly nothing to worry about. The same has been true with bipolar so far. Dad thinks it's just bouts of depression despite what my T and pdoc think so with enough willpower and therapy, I can just get over it. AURRGH!! It doesn't work that way!
I'm very very sorry your family has been this way towards you -I wish they were more supportive, it sounds awful. Is there some way they could go in to see your pdoc so he/she could explain the illness to them? Do you think this would be helpful?

So you don't feel better on the meds, you continue to be unstable, but wouldn't it be worse to be unstable *and* have all the awful side effects of going off the meds cold turkey? What you're doing makes me afraid for you. You know that stopping them like this can hurt you... I hope your appointment with your pdoc goes well and you can find a med combination that works for you.