Robutts,
They actually mention the possiblity of "pre-verbal trauma" and then suggest in another session you may not have anything deeper to work on than current relationship?
You are not the one who is lost, it is your therapists who seemingly don't have a clue. Please find someone who deals with trauma. You deserve someone who actually "hears" you and is able to provide a safe therapeutic environment.
Regards,
Sabra