I'm sorry, but I don't know how you can know her, or anyone's honest intentions more than they can. Is it possible that everyone can leave this alone? I think this is a destructive dynamic, calling people out and making them "prove" what their Dear T posts are all about.

So what if someone does make a comment on a post or thread? I have seen this happen elsewhere on this forum, and no one bats an eye. I read the couch sometimes and people are discussing other threads and/or other posters on occasion. Why not just let people have their say here and move along or don't read, if it's something that irritates you?