I voted for marriage.

I have been married once, got divorced 11 years later. I don't regret marrying the man and I don't regret divorcing him.

I loved being married because I love coming home to someone and sharing my life. I love the idea of belonging (not in possession) to someone and they belong to me. Do you need a marriage to do that? No.

For me I don't have to be married to have that because I feel that way in a committed relationship. So why did I pick marriage?

I chose it because I do want it again. Not right away. And I wanted to answer the poll honestly.