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Originally Posted by julie234332
Hi everyone. I want to know how you would feel in this situation.
My two friends are sleeping over at my house tonight and we were watching a movie in my sister's room. I told them i had to urinate and they said "okay" so i got up to go to the bathroom which is in the hallway. however, I wasn't feeling well and i was there for 30 minutes. they did not text me or look for me or call my name. i started feeling better, but i was still pissed that they did not ask me if i was ok. so i honestly made it into a game (they did not know this obviously) and went downstairs and stayed down there for another 2 hours. They still did not call my name, text me, or look for me. i was very hurt because they have been my good friends since we were 10 years old (we are now 19).
i know its my house and they probably did not think anything bad happened to me, but you still never know. I could have been tied up in a closet or kidnapped and they would never know. Now i feel that I can't trust them in general. And the movie was over and they still did not look for me. Also, they could have easily paused the movie anyway.
i eventually came upstairs and went into my sister's room to get my phone charger. they asked me where i was and if i am ok and i just said i'm fine and walked away trying to hold back tears. i am sleeping in my room and they are sleeping in the guest room (that's how we always do it anyway though).
how do i confront them about this?
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I think you are overly dramatizing the situation. Your friends were in your home after all, and if you are in someone else's home you normally don't question the host where they go in their own house and how long they stay in that place.. Most of the time people wouldn't think something bad happened to a person just because they were missing half an hour or an hour within the territory of their own place. It just doesn't come to their mind. Not because they don't care, they just don't get those negative thoughts. And in the end your friends did ask if you were ok and things were alright, so it shows they do care about you