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Originally Posted by TanyaP
It's not just you, many ladies do have a hard time getting to like a really good guy and choose some bad guys to be with instead just because they are more attracted to them. They even have a saying " guys are of 2 kinds - some are nice and some are the ones we like". Of course, it would benefit you if you get involved with someone "nice" on the long run if you are looking for a serious relationship because you will be secure and he will care for you and treat you well. But if the attraction is not there, it won't make you happy to be around that person, I'm afraid.. Yet, if you think he's a good person on the overall, maybe you could first discuss those issues you don't like about him with him, and see if he might change some of his ways and habits for you. And if even that doesn't help you to feel more attracted to him, I guess he's just not the one for you..
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This hits the nail on the head, I'm certain I'm attracted to assholes and like guys who are a negative and a bit on the rough side, although I don't think it's good for me to date these kinds of guy.. plus when I do my emotions are too intense and I wind up getting infatuated and obsessed with them and I really don't want that. I like that things are calm and stable with the my boyfriend, although I'm kind of worried I might get bored with it. I'm going to keep dating him and see what happens, I'm hoping maybe my feelings will grow with time.. he is very sweet and I do like spending time with him.