welcome wittlebee. Well, of course he is saying those things to get you to come back.

You need to set guidelines before going back, if ever. He needs to get on meds, and into therapy. If he does that, he will begin to change, and at that time you might consider a closer relationship.

You have the forethought to become separated, don't undo what sounds like was a decision you live better with.

Take care of yourself. Tough love requires others to act in their best interest before you continue investing in the relationship.

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