Fetishes are often times very conflicting. We are led to believe that anything astray from the normal is wrong, immoral. But often times, our fetishes are very much commonplace, particularly those of domination/submission. People like to control and be controlled, and often times it's in the bedroom where we get to play out exactly who we want to be.

I am quite submissive in real life, but I like to take on the Nazi get up to be in full control during sex. I feel sexy and powerful and in control, whereas in real life I feel stepped on and ugly and powerless.