I'd say yes it's mostly a big fat guess (I just heard the words fart gas in my head while typing!!) they're actually quite similar lol.

You're not useless I do know that. And more likely you know too much about many things.

It's ok to not know everything about yourself. I'm sure many seekers are twice our age. It's like more to discover to unwrap to piece the puzzle. Keeps it interesting. And a deep person is not easy to figure out. It's all part of the process. My current perspective. Flip could switch of course... And my paranoia is so bad I can't even read the thread with any related word in the title. Next thing I know my ounce of confidence is out the window, where's my stupid minty pills... Why make sense I don't have to make sense right?