Hello

So I have been seeing this new lady for about a month now. We have been on three really good dates and get along great. I am a little shy and apparently a little needy or unconfident. I have dated a lot over the years and have been in several long term relationships. I am 36 and she is 35. She divorced about a year ago and I am not sure how much dating she has done between. Their marriage ended over some psych issues on his part as best as she has shared in the short time we have known one another.

While the dates have been great, and we have taken it very slow as we kissed for the first time on our third date. She appears to be one of the nicest people I have ever met, the most bbeautiful woman I have ever dated, and extremely family oriented. We both want kids and to have that for ourselves and discussed those kind of requirements. My major issue is she does not really communicate much between our dates. I initiate all communication, I know some women want the man to lead in this way. The issue is even after initiating it takes her time and I mean hours to get back to me sometimes the next day. Most of our communication is via text while I would rather talk a bit. Now I know I have a need to talk and it is early so perhaps I am being a bit needy and it will come. I asked how she liked to communicate on our last date and she said she talks all day at work and when she got home she really didn't want it and wanted to veg out. She said she knew this would be a problem for any relationship.

I guess my question is am I over thinking this too much and I should give room and see what happens. It is pretty early and on our dates she is constantly saying she is filing things away for the future when I mention likes and what not. She really seems into me in person but it does seem hard to get to know someone one date every week.