I felt that way too. But it was just because i wasn't strong enough to face the truth.

You know, there is really good and bad in people and recognizing it can help us make the right choice for ourselves.

Just yesterday a young guy set fire to his 15 yo girlfriend just because she said no to him.
Should we think well of him? should we take care of his personal troubles and forgive him before he's gone to jail or do we need to know that these things are VERY wrong and that this guy should be treated and helped to make him realize what he has just done?