Well..I didn't post about this get people into disagreements.

Inedible said: "Before we can properly evaluate his response, it would be necessary to read the letter you sent to him - and in the context of knowing what happened between the two of you. It sounds like you still hold him in contempt. You wrote him a letter to let him know how you really feel. Maybe he got the message just fine."

So, by your standards, I should not have posted my feelings and thoughts here at all without also posting the letter I sent to this man? "You wrote him a letter to let him know how you really feel. Maybe he got the message just fine." For what it's worth, I wrote him a kind letter. I didn't have to do that, and his response was rude, not worthy of the effort I went to composing my heartfelt thoughts. Sorry, no, I'm not going to post the letter here for your voyeuristic pleasure. Your comments are inappropriate. You know nothing about me or my feelings.