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Originally Posted by Michelle25
It sounds early to me in the relationship to make a judgment on why she is reluctant to talk during the week. You might try extending your dates to longer periods of time and gradually work towards adding more casual brief encounters during the week. When I say extending the date, I mean rather than just have dinner and a movie out, how about spending the entire day together? It might end with just hanging out at your place or hers watching TV. During the week maybe you could arrange to meet for ice cream or just take a walk in the park. The more "ordinary" time you spend together, the better you will get to know her and her ways. We all have to make accommodations for someone we want to be with. If she is worth it, you'll find a way. Best to you.
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Thank you Michelle,
We have had anything but traditional dates to this point. While our first date was just to mett for a lunch we extended that and went for a long walk. It was really nice to just get to know her and spend leisurely time together. Our second and third dates while including dinner were active activities after and I know she had a blast. Scheduling time to just hangout is tough we do live a small distance from one another and are both a little tough with time. I agree it is a bit early to judge but I have never dated a woman who didn't want to talk
That probably sounds horrible but I think you know what I mean. I probably am a bit crazy but I could and would like to see this go somewhere. Not that we know one another that well or I couldn't move on if that is what happens. Just she seems so good and that we generally have some connection.