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Old May 27, 2013, 01:58 PM
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Hi Sammie ~ Give her some time. I'm sure she is wanting to take this very slowly, after her divorce, just a YEAR ago. Most therapists will tell you to wait at LEAST a year before dating and getting serious again after a divorce. You need that time to get your head together, and to know what you REALLY want.

She may NOT know what she wants, really. She said she wants kids -- but she may not really be SURE about that. She's 35 yrs old, and having a child at 35 isn't as easy as it sounds. When the child is 10 yrs old, and wants to play, she'll be 45! Bodies aren't the same anymore. LOL

Plus the time between dates -- she's probably trying to figure out how she feels; what her emotions are trying to tell her -- how she feels about you. She doesn't want to go on a rebound!!! And by seeing you more often would likely make her make a bad decision. She needs time to figure things out, and having time between dates is a good idea. That way she WON'T just jump into this relationship with all 4 feet.

So give her time. Chances are things will be okay -- but even if they aren't, you'll know that she was honest about everything. God bless and please take care. Hugs, Lee
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