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Originally Posted by healingme4me
I, personally, have a harder time with phone chatter, since being divorced, myself. It's that the marriage, itself, took that wind out of my sail. Maybe something similar for her? Not sure, don't know her. But, um, I know it's something I wouldn't want to come right out and say, hey, I'm a little damaged from my previous marriage towards phone chatter.
If things are proceeding, you've had the wanting children discussion, and I would presume, she responds to you and is emotionally present when out on a date, then maybe it's something that will fall in line?
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Hello
Thank you for that. I completely get that it can be tough to trust and be open after being through a tough ending to a relationship. While I have never been married I have completely experienced it.
How long after you got divorced did you feel comfortable opening yourself up? I know that is personal but talking about this kind of helps. I do not want to be her rebound nor do I want to push her away by being too needy. I just do not want to not get a fair chance with this if there are things I can do to make it easier.
I know there is nothing I can do for her from the point of being ready. She just seems so at ease in person it kind of seems like mixed signals.