Spaz, I don't think directing him to this site is a good idea. That's my personal opinion. But, how about to a site for spouses/significant others of people who are depressed/anxious etc?

And the low sex drive might be due to meds... or it might not. I'd be cautious about suggesting this, because if he's already pressuring you beyond your boundaries, then the last thing you need is pressure to stop taking meds (if you're even taking them -- are you?).