My husband did not understand therapy but does trust/love me and took it for granted, when I said I needed it, that I needed it. He did not like spending the money (and I had to start working again full-time in order to afford it) but in a discussion of "how much would you be willing to spend to see me healthy and happy?" the answer came back (shocked me out of my boots :-) "Every last penny I had." Just accept the side of the mouth you agree with :-) Mixed feelings should be a piece of cake to deal with by now? LOL