I am having a difficult time dealing with my thoughts and anxiety about a new man I've been seeing a couple weeks. Yes I know thats still fresh but also part of my dilemma--- We have one big difference from the get go- he may still want kids and I don't. He's been honest from the first date about it. I looked at it as I'll just see how it plays out. He's obviously interested in me. I really like him and his qualities and want to continue finding out more. His actions and words tell me he sees himself continuing to date me and become exclusive but I just feel like any second the rug will get pulled from underneath me. I hate having negative thoughts but can't avoid the reality. I try positive self talk but it's a struggle.
I don't know him well enough yet to determine if he's long term material but do I risk heartache in trying to find out or just tell him we shouldn't see each other and he should figure it out on his own?... I really don't Want to do that. I know I am taking a big risk with my emotions and my anxiety is building.
Your thoughts are appreciated.