I survived
I spent about 10 minutes second guessing myself before I gave it to her. She said she likes it when I write stuff down and give it to her. (Probably because I don't give her much information otherwise.) She said she liked me and wouldn't have/keep a client if she didn't like them.
Still not sure how I felt about giving her all that info but at least she recognizes that it was hard for me and sort of understands that it's hard for me to trust.