My experience in therapy this time (last round of therapy I did, many years ago, I wasn't married or I was at the tail end of therapy) is that my marriage has really benefited from my therapy. Actually, this pisses me off for two reasons: 1) he benefits from my work; and 2) obviously, the issues that were/are in our marriage have at least something to do with who I don't ***** about (me). I would say that all of my relationships have deepened in intimacy and satisfaction, minus one or two that I have let go because I got tired of being a personal wailing wall.