Don't go into a relationship to help the person....that only ends up in a co-dependent relationship.....you get a good feeling giving help & they get a good feeling needing help.....you are better off just out of that relationship.

I can tell you one thing....if she has a drug problem like she says....that blocks emotions (whether they admit it does or not)...it blocks all emotions good & bad. It blocks everything that is necessary to make connection between 2 people & especially with one who doesn't have a drug problem.

You are better off letting her go her own way unless for some reason she really comes back & want's help to CHANGE....otherwise you just enabling her unacceptable behavior.

You are better off without having anything to do with her IMO.