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Originally Posted by bluedolphin92
Thank you for your response. Do you think it would be a good idea to ask him how exactly he feels about me? I really want to because the fact that he was the one to bring up a relationship has made me curious. I just really wonder if he feels as deeply for me as I do for him. But I'm kind of afraid that I'll be upset if he doesn't feel the same, or just get lulled into a false sense of hope if he does.
Also, I don't know if I really even WANT to get over the crush. Not completely, anyway. Is it possible to keep some place in my heart open to him while still pursuing other relationships?
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Mine broached the subject, too. Wanted to be closer to me. When I mentioned relocation, he sort of freaked and back-peddled.
When they say, no go on LDR, they usually mean they won't compromise, even for a couple of years.
But, you know what, you won't know, until you go for it, and ask him, what do you mean?
What are your long term intentions with me? Why did you mention relationship. Things like that. He brought it up, hold him to this train of thought. Otherwise, you'll wonder...
Go for it!!!