Hi, recently my girlfriend told me about her sexual fantasies and things that she may like to do one day during sex. We are lesbians, so i find it strange when she told me that, when she masturbates she fantasies of headless men doing sex to her hardly, because it helps her to reach orgasm faster. The other thing is that she would like trying some sort of bdsm tactics and stuff, but she doesn't know if she will like it. She is also attracted by bdsm written stories. How am I supposed to feel about all that? I believe that sexual fantasies show to us what we really like deep inside and who we really are, so, am I right about this belief or not? I don't know.